I was perusing a sex store the other day and noticed the amount of strap ons for couples their were for sale. I’m not talking dildos for gay couples but products very clearly aimed at heterosexual couples. I find this an interesting subject as to most straight men the idea of being penetrated by their partner immediately has their backs to the wall proclaiming their red blooded testosterone fuelled persona would never concede to having a phallus pointed in their direction. But it seems that this anal taboo amongst men is lifting and the presence of couples strap ons amidst the pleasure objects of a boutique style adult store indicates that what was tab00 and underground is hitting the mainstream with a large degree of popularity.
It turns out there is a whole term out there for the practice of penetrating your male partner which is ‘pegging’ and the quirky term of bend over boyfriend, with a strapless dildo named after the practice if you were unsure of its sexual application. The persona of impenetrable man is falling away and a new confident guy is emerging who is unafraid to experiment with his partner sexually and allow himself to be in a more vulnerable position in the bedroom. Sex toys for couples now encompass dildos and harnesses for male/female gratification and those men that take the chance are rewarded with immense pleasures. The prostate when directly stimulated gives a man an orgasm of greater strength than the usual and using a dildo or prostate sex toy can bring on this refined climax that most men love. The anus is another erogenous zone and once all taboos are ignored provides a variety in a couples sex life which enhances all other areas. The trust and intimacy involved in the ‘pegging practice’ helps to bond and tie a couple and any man who is prepared to let go of all outdated notions of what it means to be masculine and demonstrate a lack of inhibition in the bedroom deserves all the pleasure he is definitely going to get!
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