A good blow job takes just one thing for success, enthusiasm with a capital E. If your partner feels like you are enjoying yourself he will enjoy what you have to offer. Watching your partner revel and gorge on your intimate parts is a real turn on and motivation is the key to pleasing your lover. Your lovers penis didn’t come with an instruction manual, its left up to you to figure out how to please and tease by experience alone. A good blow job doesn’t have to involve the deep throat techniques of a porn star or even the willingness to swallow his come only you feeling happy and relaxed with your own preferences and technique.
Begin by making sure you are physically comfortable as the movement entailed in fellatio can be tiring, if not hard work. Prop yourself into position with pillows and make sure your elbows make contact with a firm surface for support. Have a few props to hand in case you need them for instance tie back your hair, have a glass of water for a sip if you need it or champagne if the mood is right to lubricate you and send fizzy sensations over your lovers penis. Choose a flavoured lubricant for a tasty treat or use Rocket Balm which will send heightened sensations to his penis whilst providing a coll minty flavour on your tongue.
Fill his senses with your femininity by wearing a sexy outfit and spraying the bedsheets with a lingering sensual fragrance. A man loves visual stimulus and watching you in a seductive corset or cup-less bra will add to his experience. Tell him what you would like to do to him and make him lie motionless whilst you play with yourself with a vibrator or dildo. Softly kiss his ears and neck before travelling down to his chest and tummy. Trace your soft lips around his sensitive sides and inner thighs without touching his penis. Let him feel your breath on the tip of his penis without touching to heighten his anticipation of whats to come. This is foreplay to fellatio and works arousal in your man before the event occurs. We all know how important foreplay is to your overall enjoyment and he will have to hold himself back before you even manage to glide your soft lips up and down his shaft.
Times are hard and looking for ways to earn a little extra cash is high on peoples list of priorities. Ms Jenny Smith from Hampshire did indeed pull out her pencil and sketch pad and produce the winning sex toy design in Lovehoney’s competition bagging herself £1000 in the process. Indeed if a sex toy goes off the orgasm scale with global distribution and a brand coveted by the nations females Jenny takes a nice percentage of the takings, kerching that’s thinking outside of the sex toy box during these difficult financial times.
The winning sex toy is obviously being kept firmly beneath Lovehoneys duvet suffice to say the toy is ’simple’ yet ‘unique’. One judge described the toy as pleasure giving to women, men and couples a sex toy with endless orgasmic possibility. Think of the we-vibe a couples sex toy recognised by many and designer sex toys with global brand recognition that turn a pleasure giving profit to sex toy manufacturers with the next big thing in the adult market. Designing sex toys could be at the top of any career advisers discussion sheet and hey life would never be dull again!