The Four Stages Of Female Arousal

Did you know that women go through four stages of arousal during the process of orgasm – The Boudoir explains how

Did you know that there are four distinct phases of female arousal? Research has shown that women move through a process of arousal, a stage of plateau, the orgasm and then a slow and gradual

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Some of My Favourite Things by Julie

Julie our lovely lady Buyer chooses some of her favourite sex toys and bedroom treats for this coming Valentine

Some of favourite things for Valentine….Bijoux Indiscrets – Feathers, pearls, crystals and satin bows, nobody mixes luxury and sensual bondage the way Bijoux Indiscrets does. If your beau is a lover of all that is opulent, Bijoux Indiscrets will trumpet the message that you consider them worthy of a discerning choice with gorgeous packaging to match the tactile nature of the goodies ins…

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Fancy some Foreplay

What distinguishes great sex from just ok sex? Plenty of foreplay.

From the male perspective foreplay can mean a longer sex session, greater build up and the time it takes to enable your partner orgasm. From the female perspective foreplay allows that build up to climax which is often needed and the time it takes to get into the mood. Time restraints often inhibit a full on love in digging out the sex toys and lube but often it only takes a couple of good foreplay techniques to get your partner aroused. If you fall foul of a schedule that only permits a mid week quickie adopt a couple of foreplay techniques to add some Wednesday night zing.

The Pinch

After tracing gentle lines around your partners thighs and lower abdomen, pich your fingers together and gently clasp the testicles with a gentle tug. Don’t pull too hard just enough to manipulate the balls. Next open your palms and swirl around either side of the inner thighs with a light tracing of your fingers at the perineum. Next apply the pinch at the base of the penis and move upwards so that the foreskin moves over the glans. Finish by clasping the base of the cock and massaging up and down, using the tightness your partners requests. Using some sex lubricant will help with the movement.

Erotic 8

This is a foreplay/massage technique which really raises arousal in a woman. Kneel over her body at about hip level and warm some oil or scented lubricant in your hands. Start the pattern of massage just above the breastbone at the neck and trace your palms down either side of the ribcage and across to the naval. Sweep the hands further around the outer hips and meet at the pubic area. Gently kneed this part of the body gently flickering your fingers over the delicate clitoris before beginning the figure of 8 all over again. She will be desperate for further stimulation at the clitoral area after a couple of sexy circuits and you finish with oral stimulation, a clitoral vibrator or just mutual masturbation.

Sealed With a Kiss

The sensual art of kissing can be an amazing part of foreplay & an erotic way to heighten arousal

Were kisses all the joys in bed,One woman would another wed.~William Shakespeare, Sonnets to Sundry Notes of Music, IVWhen it comes to brilliant foreplay and arousal, kissing is king. Kissing is in fact the height of intimacy and avoiding the sensual kiss usually indicates a lack of affinity and closeness in a relationship. Kissing takes effort but reap the rewar…

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Modest Yet Mighty

Christmas Gifts for Women Where Size really doesn’t matter!

We have a Modest Yet Mighty range of Christmas sex toys for women, devised to provide you with the best-selling, most popular and powerful sex toys, vibrators and intimate massagers that won

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Christmas Gifts For Lovers Of Luxury

Lovers of Luxury will adore our Sex Toys For Women Christmas selection as devised by the equally demandi

To help you find just the right gift for your lover of luxury, The Boudoir has devised a Christmas Collection of lavish and extravagant, best-selling women

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Vibe Therapy Serene Review

Beth reviews the Vibe Therapy Serene, poised ready for the vibrators calming influence

Being someone who prefers a tranquil environment when using Vibrators, preferably in a peaceful setting in comfortable, calm surroundings (sex on the stairs or against the washing machine has never been my thing), I was very pleased to be invited to review the …

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How To Use Lelo Lyla

Lelo Lyla Sensemotion may sound a little complicated but its a fabulous t

Lyla is a discreet vibrator in the shape of an egg and can be used for both external and internal stimulation. As a woman

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Bswish Bcute Pearl Vibrator Review

Claire reviews Bswish Bcute Pearl, a woman’s sex toy with oodles of power and style

I love to be pleasantly surprised and in the case of bcute pearl by bswish I certainly got more than I bargained for. Why? The cost of the vibrator represented good value in comparison to other designer type sex toys I had bought, therefore my expectations were slightly lower …

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Grrl Toyz Knicker Tickler Clitoral Vibrator Review

Over the last ten years we have seen some great ideas come and go in the world of sex toys. The main reason being that a good idea in the sales blurb sometimes never comes to fruition in real life. However, the …

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