What distinguishes great sex from just ok sex? Plenty of foreplay.
From the male perspective foreplay can mean a longer sex session, greater build up and the time it takes to enable your partner orgasm. From the female perspective foreplay allows that build up to climax which is often needed and the time it takes to get into the mood. Time restraints often inhibit a full on love in digging out the sex toys and lube but often it only takes a couple of good foreplay techniques to get your partner aroused. If you fall foul of a schedule that only permits a mid week quickie adopt a couple of foreplay techniques to add some Wednesday night zing.
The Pinch
After tracing gentle lines around your partners thighs and lower abdomen, pich your fingers together and gently clasp the testicles with a gentle tug. Don’t pull too hard just enough to manipulate the balls. Next open your palms and swirl around either side of the inner thighs with a light tracing of your fingers at the perineum. Next apply the pinch at the base of the penis and move upwards so that the foreskin moves over the glans. Finish by clasping the base of the cock and massaging up and down, using the tightness your partners requests. Using some sex lubricant will help with the movement.
Erotic 8
This is a foreplay/massage technique which really raises arousal in a woman. Kneel over her body at about hip level and warm some oil or scented lubricant in your hands. Start the pattern of massage just above the breastbone at the neck and trace your palms down either side of the ribcage and across to the naval. Sweep the hands further around the outer hips and meet at the pubic area. Gently kneed this part of the body gently flickering your fingers over the delicate clitoris before beginning the figure of 8 all over again. She will be desperate for further stimulation at the clitoral area after a couple of sexy circuits and you finish with oral stimulation, a clitoral vibrator or just mutual masturbation.